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Wednesday, April 14, 2010
April 2010
Monday, December 14, 2009
December 2009
Friday, September 18, 2009
August/September 2009
We are rapidly approaching the one year anniversary of our move to Burleson for the purpose of mission work in the south Fort Worth region. I’ve tried to send regular updates over the past months and on the eve of a new school year I submit this expanded description. (If you haven’t gotten our regular updates via email and would like to, let me know!) Great things have occurred in our lives and the life of our community and we’d like to tell you about some of that. I’ll also m
ention up front that our ability to continue in this ministry depends in part on the willingness of other Christians to partner with us. More on that in a minute...
Family
Its amazing how much Conner beginning school has affected our whole family! He loves it - his teacher, Ms Scarpello, is doing a great job helping him take assignments to the next level. Since he's already reading and spelling on a significantly higher level we were concerned about how much trouble he'd be getting into.
Toward the end of the first week he'd starting making comments about the classwork being boring. As soon as his teacher caught wind she immediately began challenging him to do more.
For instance, instead of writing the letter "A" he writes a word that begins with "A" and perhaps draws a picture of that word. We're so glad that God answered our prayers with an attentive and caring teacher for Conner's academic debut!
Micah is attending the pre-K at Burleson CofC (where Conner was last year) and he is also very excited. He is different from Conner in so many ways, but I think they both share a love for school and being around other kids in that type of environment. He is really coming into his own with his crazy imagination. There is no telling what that kid will come up with next.
As for Josiah...I think he is about to give his mother a heart attack. We absolutely love his personality: he's full of fearless curiosity. He climbs and jumps and falls and cries and runs away to climb, jump and fall again. Nothing is safe from this destructosaur anymore! But he is full of life and energy and is growing like a weed. We are a better family because of Jo-Jo.
Meanwhile, our mission work in the south Fort Worth region continues to progress in surprising ways. Our approach is different from that of many church plants in that we are not advertising or placing our focus on a high energy seeker-sensitive Sunday morning worship gathering. Our desire is to 1) reach out to our neighborhoods and community and to 2) connect with those people who would not attend a new church plant’s worship gathering no matter how well advertised or relevant. Many of the people that I’m cultivating relationship with have said in no uncertain terms, “I don’t trust Christians, Church or the God they worship.”
We believe that it is the call of every Christian to live their faith in the midst of people such as these; to love them and to pour themselves out on their behalf. We believe that each Christian is a missionary. That isn’t to say that everyone is an evangelist and must be prepared to give a polished sermon or Gospel presentation. But we should be prepared to give an account of our faith to those who ask (Colossians 4) and mostly we should all be living INTENTIONALLY in such a way that people see our good deeds and are moved to glorify God (Matthew 5:16, 1 Peter 2:12).
And let me tell you, I’ve seen this happen. I have heard it said of people here - as I did in New Orleans during disaster relief work - “If this is what Christians are supposed to be like I may need to rethink my assumptions about God.”
We don’t expect people to carry around gospel tracts or attempt to segue every conversation into a sales-pitch for church - in fact we discourage those inauthentic relationship-killing activities. However, being an undercover Christian isn’t the goal either. We want people to know that Jesus is forming us into precisely the kind of people that they enjoy inviting over for dinner.
Rachel and I are hoping to be able to afford to move into a home in a neighborhood soon where we can invest in relationships in these ways. Currently we are blessed to live on the same property with a Christ Journey family. We have really enjoyed this opportunity to live communally with them (the boys have really loved sharing a swimming pool!) and like the Kennemers in Corpus Christi, Thigpens and Prudes in Dallas, Coalwells and several others in Mandeville, the Myers have become surrogate parents/grandparents to our young family.
Christ Journey
My role here in Burleson/south Fort Worth is primarily that of missionary and equipper of local church planters (more on that in the Shenandoah section). Christ Journey Church is our worshipping community and I am blessed to be able to use my gifts of teaching and preaching (and my still developing musical abilities!) to serve my family.
This first year has given me a chance to work with our spiritual formation process. I’ve developed and implemented two new retreats; worked with Chris to develop a yearly spiritual formation calendar which focuses on the cultivation of rhythm and seasons, with each season anchored by a retreat event. We’ve addressed the focus and rhythm of our house churches, and Chris has done some great work this summer with formation groups (groups of 2, 3 or occasionally more that meet together for prayer, study and shared commitment to mission).
Our formation groups focus on sharing the life of mission together. There is Bible study, discussion and often accountability, but what we’re really emphasizing is participating together in the life of faith. Our formation groups have thrown parties for their disconnected, not-yet-Christian friends; they’ve passed out water to construction workers, planned and instigated community picnics and perhaps most radically, gone across the street to meet their neighbors!
Chris and I continue to share the preaching responsibilities and work together with Ryan Kimball and Debra Osborn in planning our worship gatherings. Chris and I are both ready to address the pastoral needs of Christ Journey and are richly blessed that this community does not sit around and wait for us to do it - caring for one another in times of need is something that Christ Journey does unbelievably well.
Rachel continues working with our preschool children’s ministry and we’re both very committed to the life of our church community. We don’t have a flashy children’s program here. What we do have is a commitment to raising our children as members of Christ’s body; as participants in the community, not merely a tool to attract their parents. It has been great to see our kids find opportunities to serve and worship and play right alongside adults. (The picture on the cover of this packet is from a trip to take cookies to the folks at Trinity Mission Nursing Home.)
The other notable area of Christ Journey ministry that we’re involved in is our connection to and friendship with Harvest House. We continue to volunteer to open the thrift store one Saturday a month and I am excited that word has spread and there is currently another church group considering taking responsibility for a different Saturday each month.
We also continue to invite the volunteers, staff and clients of Harvest House to join us on the last Tuesday of each month at Rosa’s for a shared meal. We aren’t just feeding the poor, we are developing friendships around a shared table.
And, we have been able to take advantage of Chick-Fil-A’s First 100 event to benefit Harvest House and the poor in our area. Whenever a new CFA opens they give away 52 coupons good for a #1 combo to each of the first 100 people in line. It is a big event, people begin lining up 24 hours in advance and the CFA people basically host a big party for those willing to camp out in a parking lot. We decided that if a group were to attend a grand opening they could each give half of their tickets to Harvest House and be able to provide dozens of meals for hungry people, while still taking plenty of coupons home for their family. We’ve attempted this as a group twice now.
We were thwarted the first time by scores of college kids who arrived incredibly early! However, when word got out that we’d driven to Austin only to turn around and drive home, a friend from Tammany Oaks went and told our story to the Covington CFA...and the manager gave her 25 coupons for us to donate to Harvest House! Were recently able to donate another 52. So far that means we’ve provided 77 meals through this little project!
Shenandoah
Our work with the Shenandoah Townhomes community continues to be a source of excitement and encouragement. If you haven’t heard before now, I’ve been working among families in this small community for the past several months. We’ve already planted one house church and the transition of leadership in that house church has happened and a local couple is about to be commissioned to serve as church planters in that community. I am also looking towards the establishment of some new discussion groups, Bible studies and/or house churches through other persons of peace in that community (Matthew 10).
The property manager of Shenandoah is now a member of our current house church and has assured us that when the time comes for several house churches to gather together on a Sunday morning or some other time for worship, the clubhouse is available to them free of charge - provided the gathering is open to all residents of Shenandoah (which is a stipulation I think we can accommodate!)
Members of the Shenandoah house church have started a Neighborhood Watch and organized community picnics this summer. Last spring Robin Hunter (the Hunters are the hosts and new leaders of the house church) started an after-school homework club which we hope will happen again this year. There’s been talk of a support group for single mothers (there are a lot in Shenandoah) and an emergency care team which will help families who experience sudden job loss, serious illness or death, etc.
Our prayer is that through these efforts there will be light where before there was darkness, hope where there was despair and life where there was death.
Denny’s
I love my time at Denny’s. I am now a well known regular; the waitstaff and managers not only tolerate but seem to enjoy my presence. We have great conversations. From what I can gather, for a while I was “that guy who always comes in and drinks coffee.” Then I was “that church guy that doesn’t get in your face about church.” And now to several folks I’m known as “Bret”, I am becoming a part of the community here. There are about 8 people with whom I have developed deeper relationships with and 4 or so that engage me in regular spiritual conversations. It probably isn't appropriate to give much personal detail on my friends in this public setting, but if you'd like to hear stories, I love to tell them!
Huguley Fitness Center
When we moved to Burleson I committed to taking better care of my body. I’ve tried to develop a healthier sleep schedule (which has amounted to waking up earlier...I’m still working on the going to bed earlier part), eating better (I hardly ever have a Dr. Pepper anymore...but I’m not going to research the impact of my coffee intake) and exercising regularly. Chris and I have been trying to play racquetball 4 or 5 days a week for nearly a year now and it has had numerous benefits.
The most exciting part is that we have developed friendships with a large number of people who work and workout there in the mornings - some have even joined us for our Sunday morning worship! While some of our friends are Christians, several are not and I am honored that God has brought me into their lives and them into mine. Recently it seems that the relationships have launched forward and I’m praying that this is the precursor to greater opportunities for us to share in the life of Christ with them.
Since beginning my new work schedule (more on that in a minute) I'm not able to play racquetball much anymore. Hopefully I'll figure out a new exercise routine that will work. For now I pray that God will continue to bless Chris with the opportunity to develop these relationships. Please join me in this prayer.
Doctor of Ministry
This summer I began work on a degree in evangelism from SMU. This is considered a practical or professional degree (meaning its focus is on the practice of ministry more than research) and the whole program is structured around my doctoral project which is the development of a program of intensive on-the-ground training for people interested in church planting and missional/incarnational church leadership. I am very excited and have my eye on a location here in this region where I’d like to focus at least part of this project. More on that in a future update.
Some people have asked if it is a good idea for me to be taking on the expense of a degree at SMU right now, considering our unstable financial situation. It is true that my undergraduate degree came with a large side order of student loans. Since then I have worked very hard to keep my education from being any more of a burden on my family than it has to be. So we took the distance option for grad school which meant I had access to fewer resources but also received an 80% discount on tuition.
SMU is even more affordable because my hard work has been rewarded with a full scholarship during the first half of my course work and a good chance for the second half to be covered as well. We, as a family, have decided that this is indeed a good time to pursue this degree.
Finances
The reality is that finances are an issue for us. When we moved to Burleson last October we had enough money pledged and on hand to cover our full support for four months. Our commitment to working in our neighborhoods and among skeptics and the broken/hurting folks we encounter “as we are going” means that it will likely be some time before Christ Journey is financially self-sustaining.
We’ve discovered that missions committees are struggling to view domestic missions as legitimate place to use missions funds and thus often want to see a thorough business plan leading rapidly to self-sufficiency. While I believe the tide is turning there, it may not happen soon enough. Part of my investment in the D.Min is an attempt to broaden my ability to augment my income. I’ve already had been approached by folks at SMU regarding the possibility of serving as adjunct faculty upon graduation.
I’ve also been involved in training for certification as a church planting/ministry/life coach through Mission Alive’s partnership with CoachNet. This will allow me to invest in church planters and potential missional leaders and also earn some additional money.
Chris and I are also working to offer our 4 retreats to churches and groups outside Christ Journey. We feel that these events, developed to address important areas of spiritual formation, can be beneficial to others. More information on these retreats and their impact is available.
In addition to doing retreats (and weddings!), coaching and (soon) apprentice training it has become necessary for me to consider other part-time employment as well. So I’ve begun substitute teaching as much as 5 days a week in Mansfield.
This means that I don’t have as much time to spend at Denny’s, Starbucks, BABS, Huguley during the day, which has caused a certain amount of sadness and frustration. While I will find other times to invest in these places, the people I’ve gotten to know over the past year are not just numbers to me - they are actual real people; friends who are in these places during the day, that I am already beginning to miss.
I do believe that God will open the door to relationships with faculty and staff in Mansfield ISD, not to mention the connection with the students. If we are able to raise all of our support through fundraising, I still plan to sub once or twice a week as an opportunity to connect with folks in Mansfield. I hope that in a future update I will be describing the growing ministry in Mansfield and the house churches/incarnational communities that have been planted there. I do though, solicit your prayers and support so that we can keep the doors open to ministry begun and invested at Huguley Fitness Center, Denny’s and to a lesser degree JJ Mocha’s, Starbucks and BABS deli in Burleson and hopefully at some point in the near future expand our ministry in Shenandoah and pursue new work in the Upper Westside area of Fort Worth.
Thank you for being a part of this exciting journey with us.
Sunday, June 14, 2009
June 2009
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
April 2009
Dear Friends and Family,
I’m sorry that it has been so long since our last update. Life and ministry here in Burleson have been exciting and exhausting (in mostly good ways) over the last couple months.
We are just a couple weeks away from the 1 year mark since beginning to fundraise and vision cast for the Wells family church planting endeavor and its now been 6 months since we moved to Burleson.
Many of you are already aware that Rachel has begun organizing the preschool ministry at Christ Journey. We don’t have many teenagers, but our little community is chock-a-block full of nursery, preschool and elementary aged kids! Recently one of our friends with a mere 2 children commented that they were feeling pressure to join the 3 kids club - a prestigious society of which most of our families are a part!
Last month Rachel noticed (with the help of Conner) that our children’s worship/Bible class did not have Bibles! Rachel put out a request on facebook and the world renowned wellsbrothers blog for financial help to procure some Bibles. Within just a couple days we had enough money to purchase the Bibles with some left over to replace them as we have opportunity to give them away. We feel very strongly that we have no right to keep those sacred Words to ourselves...if someone worships with us who doesn’t own a Bible the message is explicit: if you need one, take one.
To those of you who contributed to this need, we cannot sufficiently express our gratitude! Your partnership in this ministry is so valuable.
We’ve had the privilege of seeing several house churches planted recently. Let me tell you a little about two that I’m especially excited about. There is a government assisted townhouse/apartment community here in Burleson known as Shenendoah. Christ Journey connected with folks in this neighborhood in the past through a kid’s camp that was apparently a great success. Recently we reconnected with some of the folks from Shenendoah and began asking what it would look like to host a house church (and eventually a series of house churches) in this community. That has become a reality. In addition to myself, the family hosting and one couple from Christ Journey, we also have made connection with several other families in the neighborhood, including the director of Shenendoah and the director of Harvest House ministries.
Robin, one of the hosts, is in the process of organizing a neighborhood watch (which we’ll participate with in some way), a safe house/after-school/summer program for teens, and a neighborhood block party with free hotdogs for everyone! People from all kinds of backgrounds are interested in what we’re doing because it is more of a Christlike lifestyle in the midst of the community than just a Bible study (as great as Bible study is!)
Also, on Wednesday nights we are participating in a new “house church” in the Chappotins’ front yard. Basically we gather around the grill and invite all the neighbors to bring something to put on the pit. There’s always plenty of extra for anyone who may not have anything and we make sure they know they’re welcome to it! We also invite a few families from Christ Journey to join us - in part to hang out, in part to model community for Chris and Heidi’s neighbors and in part to model communal living for our own folks.
This past Sunday we were able to do a neighborhood barbecue at the home of Jimmy and Debra Osborn and have had several other families ask how to get this going at their own houses. Our goal is for as many of our families as possible to reclaim their front yards as sacred space - where the love of Christ is displayed and strangers are welcomed in. IT IS HAPPENING!!!
I’ve just begun the training/certification program to serve as a coach for Mission Alive. We’ve already found coaching techniques to be helpful in our continual training and equipping of house church leaders and plan to use this more and more in the future. This will also provide me with an opportunity to bring in some additional income to augment our financial needs.
Speaking of finances, after much prayer and discernment regarding fundraising and funding options, Chris and I have made the decision to research and pursue opportunities to lead retreats for other churches and groups. We don’t anticipate this fully supporting either of our families, but it will give us a setting to bless others with some experiences which have already blessed our community. In doing so we hope to connect with potential partners in our ministry and raise awareness regarding the value of church planting movements.
Right now we have four retreats that we are using cyclically with Christ Journey. Two of these retreats - Marvelous Light, a spiritual cleansing and renewal retreat and City on a Hill, a leadership identification and equipping retreat - have been a part of Christ Journey’s spiritual formation process for a while now.
The addition of Foundations to the retreat schedule has already proven valuable. We recently participated in this event, which I converted from the previous format of a series of evening discussions. It focuses on reading, hearing and telling the grand narrative of Scripture.
We also believe that Sanctuary, an experience in ancient Christian disciplines and spirituality, will also be powerful. Sanctuary is based on retreats that I’ve led, participated in and cultivated over the past several years. I'm indebted to Shawn Small, Molly Wren and those with the Converge Youth Ministers Network in Dallas where I first experienced a retreat like this around 5 years ago.
We hope to be able to serve and encourage other ministries with these experiences which have been so important to us and the Christ Journey community.
Rachel and I (and the Chappotins as well) are seeking to be creative, diligent and discerning in our continued process of funding this mission work. Over the last few months we have made tremendous relationships with our neighbors - many of whom would be classified among the “suburban poor,” working families that are barely keeping bill collectors at bay (and often haven’t been able to do so).
The reality is that these families contribute much to our community; we are richer because of their friendship. But their contribution is not financial. We are reaching out to the hurting, the broken the forgotten and overlooked. But Chrysler still wants us to make our car payments, student loans sit quietly in the corner grinning and the Wellsbrothers expect to eat multiple times each day.
As humbling as it is to say this, I cannot do this alone.
Many of you have partnered with us financially over the last year and because of you there is a 19 year-old single mom working at Denny’s who just began school to become a medical assistant; who didn’t have to choose between paying registration costs or buying food for her baby (which was exactly what she was doing until you helped her).
There is a family from up north who wouldn’t have had any friends to turn to when the husband ended up in the hospital with pneumonia, but now they have meals being provided for them every night this week.
There are a group of people who’ve rarely eaten in a restaurant who now sit down with new friends at Rosa’s each month to feast on tacos.
People who didn’t know their neighbors are sharing hotdogs and hamburgers in their front yards; children who didn’t have Bibles have one of their own; darkness that seemed so oppressive is obliterated by light...despair is struggling to hang on as hope creeps in to places for the first time. If you haven’t seen or heard it yet, let me encourage you to check out the sermon from Christ Journey’s worship gathering on March 15 (message transcript - www.christjourneylife.com/2009/03/crisis.html or links to podcast of gathering- www.christjourneylife.com/2009/03/crisis-foundations-week-3.html )
We are experiencing a community where the effects of the Fall are being rejected by the call to reclaim community in Christ.
And we need the continued financial support of our friends in order to continue in this mission. At the one year mark of our fundraising efforts, there are some who have the decision to renew a one-year commitment and others who made special gifts who have the choice to do so again. If that is you, we ask you to prayerfully consider your partnership in this ministry.
We need you.
We need your friends, family, neighbors and congregations. You may not be in a position to drop everything and begin planting churches - and yet you can. You can help this network of house churches, worship gatherings and Christ-formed relationships continue to expand through this region and beyond.
Feel free to print this out and share it with others whom you believe may be interested.
Also, if you know of a church or group that may be interested in participating in a Sanctuary, Foundations, Marvelous Light or City on a Hill retreat - or something similar - please help us get in touch with them.
Thank you for serving as our co-laborers in the gospel.
Grace and Peace,
Bret, Rachel and the Wellsbrothers
Friday, January 30, 2009
January 2009
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
July 2008